Separated wife is dating
All he will focus on is that he has been wronged and will want to seek justice anyway he can.
He may try to even the score by fighting about custody of the children or how to split the marital estate.
At least you have a place to vent and share your experiences of what’s going on, and how you are feeling.
And, you mentioned that the last 7 months she went silent and stop communicating with you. What happened in the last conversation or discussion you had with her that would have caused her to distance herself from you?
But it is wise to hold off on the dating scene until after your divorce is finalized for a number of strategic, legal, and emotional reasons.
Strategic reasons not to date before divorce Emotions are raw during a divorce.
Clearly your wife has moved on, and neither she or her family wants to communicate with you right now. This is the time to focus on your children and co-parenting in a civil manner.
Think of your children, and what they are experiencing as they watch this unfold between you and your wife.