Red flags for abusive dating relationships
What matters most is your gut instinct about whether or not someone might be exhibiting warning signs.
If you or someone you know is concerned about safety in a relationship, you may want to consult with a private advocate in one of these university departments to talk about your options, including safety planning.
They’re in their own reality and see you as an extension of themselves to satisfy their needs and wants.
Red flags are important to be aware of for your own safety.
Does your date refuse to turn off his or her cell phone at the movies, expect others to do favors, cut in line, steal things like tableware, airline blankets, or hotel ashtrays, or insist on special treatment from the parking attendant, restaurant maitre d’, or waiter?
If you’re a woman, does he expect you to drive to his neighborhood?
But if you’re not trained to spot them, they can be easily misread, justified or dismissed. If you think you may be in an abusive relationship, get help.
In my YA novel Girl on the Brink, the story of a teen romance that turns into an abusive relationship, the main character Chloe experiences all the following red flags in her relationship with Kieran, which starts out as a passionate, intense romance but ends in disaster.1. He presses for an exclusive commitment almost immediately. Call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 800-799–7233.