Pros and cons of dating an older man with kids
It's not even like I'd do it differently because I loved her very much and those were good years. If you are mid 40ies and they are mid 30ies then it is no big deal.Just throwing this out there for all the older guys that would prioritize a big age difference over almost everything else. Weirdest thing is probably they watched TV shows you were too cool for and listened to music you were too edgy for at the time. Any age after that 10 years become insignificant.20ies 30ies probably would be damn annoying.When she eventually does leave you because she finally realizes eww you're so old, no one will blame her for escaping the clutches of an old lecher, and no one will have pity on you.Oh and she can afford to waste time slumming around with you for a couple of years and still remerge back into the dating pool with some time to spare.I always feel like once the youngest person is over 25, there are probably fewer problems. Many people automatically assume you're a creepy old guy with all of the attendant drawbacks.Younger than that and you'll probably have bigger differences about "where you are" in life. Pro: she probably still likes to go out and do shit. Especially her friends, good luck with that uphill battle.
Besides, the possibility of getting caught just brings more fun and makes things really exciting and thrilling.This leads to suppression, making him hotter and wilder when going to bed with you.And since his wild dreams were not served for so long, be ready for the adventurous sex you and your man are about to have.You'll always have to worry that a young dude will make a run at her, especially if you show signs of aging while she's still keeping it tight (for now).Good luck if you decide you don't want to go out on a Thursday night with her.