How to stop dating losers
It’s the “best” side of the deadbeat that draws the women in. As I’ve been teaching for years, the more you invest your time into someone, the harder it is to leave said person. Deadbeat will make a little effort here and there to “show” that he’s making “progress,” but he always ends up back to the same dude.
This is a topic that drives men who have difficulty attracting women and getting into relationships crazy. They will beat you and get the girl 99% of the time.
The response is to ask yourself, “What can I do to become A BETTER ME?
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How do you know you are one — or in a relationship with one of those? Men and women with a loser mentality hide who they really are (or at least think they are hiding). When they can’t have their way, they gather their toys and run home to their rooms (incommunicado), or try to sabotage others so that “everyone loses”.7.
Loser mentality type are happy with the passive role in the relationship because they don’t have to make decisions or stand accountable.8.
I’m not talking about the shy, introverted, goofy, geeky, “nice guy/girl”, not-so-attractive, unemployed, etc. You can be all of the above and still have a “winner mentality”. They don’t care who (or if they) gets hurt or embarrassed. In the loser mentality, fear, manipulation, dirty tricks etc. When someone has a loser mentality they think that they are so POWERFUL that they can control how someone else feels.6.
I’m talking about the type of men and women who seem to have it all together — looks, money, job, home, swagger, social network, charismatic personality, etc but still have a “loser” mentality. Loser mentality type will only “play nice” with others when they have something to gain or have the upper hand.
It all comes down to the way women are with their emotions.The deadbeat loser provides her with all of these great emotions that successful, busy guys can’t really provide (because they’re too busy making money and building stability to give her these things). I have also known many women who never even once thought of wasting a breath on a deadbeat loser.What a woman believes is “true love” is actually her first glimpse of a deep insecurity to care for a lost man who needs to find his way (it’s tragic). These are the types of women I like to keep as actual genuine friends in my life, and it’s exactly the type of relationship I teach you to get in my Relationship Academy.but deep life changing transformation begins with recognizing that we were never meant to be perfect.However, “loser” does describe a certain mentality that men and women bring to a date, relationship, marriage or partnership. When something goes “wrong” on a date or in the relationship, people with a loser mentality will unload all their frustration and anger like there is no tomorrow. Men and women with a loser mentality say and do things to please or to avoid “trouble”.4.