Girl dating 2 guys at once
Rather than wasting a year with them before their insecurities force a breakup, you've achieved the same thing in a month.If you'd been dating them exclusively from the start, you would have missed out on this benefit. They're a key factor in self-worth and personal happiness.Growing your social skills while you're single is a gift. When you multi-date, you naturally have less time for one man. You'll challenge him, without trying, in a way that is natural and works. Tell him, “I'm in a 'dating only' mindset, right now.Don't sacrifice this gift for a man until he's earned it. He'll have to earn his way up your priorities list, challenging him in a way he's not used to. I've told myself I would really get to know someone before I commit, so I'm holding myself to that for now.We're literally wired, via several neurotransmitters, to focus and obsess on new love – even if it isn't good for us.
It can even create positive perceptive illusions, literally blinding you to a new lover's negative characteristics. Nor-epinephrine levels rise, giving you the 'high' and sleeplessness of new love, while there is strong evidence that serotonin levels in new lovers resemble those found in clinically diagnosed obsessive compulsive sufferers.Your chances of meeting "the one" increase with every new guy you meet and date. Because you've balanced your neurotransmitters by multi-dating, you're now getting clearer, more rational observations of individual traits you like and dislike in men.When you get out there and multi-date, you make life happen at a faster rate. You might think you want X trait, but have you experienced it?And multiple dating means you're going on more dates and honing these skills faster.After you spend some time building your confidence multiple dating, you're flirting smoothly, even with the most attractive men.