Elisabeth elliot dating
God may guide some to make that double leap, and they may make it gracefully. They were fluent in Fijian, well regarded by the people, and ministered widely across dozens of sparsely-laid islands.I speak especially for myself when I say that I would expect to flounder under the stress. But neither the Calverts in rushing nor the Elliots in dragging their feet are finally normative.“I realized that the deepest spiritual lessons are not learned by His letting us have our way in the end, but by His making us wait, bearing with us in love and patience until we are able to honestly to pray what He taught His disciples to pray: Thy will be done.” ― “I do know that waiting on God requires the willingness to bear uncertainty, to carry within oneself the unanswered question, lifting the heart to God about it whenever it intrudes upon one’s thoughts.Its easy to talk oneself into a decision that has no permanence – easier sometimes than to wait patiently.” ― “If we hold tightly to anything given to us unwilling to allow it to be used as the Giver means it to be used we stunt the growth of the soul.What God gives us is not necessarily "ours" but only ours to offer back to him, ours to relinguish, ours to lose, ours to let go of, if we want to be our true selves.Many deaths must go into reaching our maturity in Christ, many letting goes.” ― “But the question to precede all others, which finally determines the course of our lives is What do I really want?
The Cross, as it enters the love life, will reveal the heart’s truth.” ― “If God gave it to me," we say "it's mine. The truth is that it is ours to thank Him for and ours to offer back to Him, ours to relinquish, ours to lose, ours to let go of - if we want to find our true selves, if we want real Life, if our hearts are set on glory.” ― “We are always held in the love of God.
A notable element in Elliot’s repertoire is her advice on Christian dating and relationships, which are boiled down into a palatable form in two books, . Elliot’s and Harris’ books advocate “courtship” over “dating,” believing that, as Don Raunikar put it, “Christian dating is an oxymoron.”  Over against “dating,” these authors seek to define “courtship” as a patient, prayerful process in which a couple more or less never escapes the supervision of a Christian chaperone.
Simply stated, Elliot is quite disdainful of what she calls “the dating mess.” Although some know her for books on missions, Elisabeth Elliot’s impact on the Christian dating scene is by no means trivial. While revisiting the story of Elisabeth Elliot’s “courtship” and eventual marriage with Jim Elliot in , the whole tale of their romance strikes me as incredibly overspiritual.
Let’s look at their decision-making process: Jim and Elisabeth believed that God had led them to a life of singleness.
They cite passages like Isaiah 54, Matthew -12, and 1 Corinthians 7 in support of this specific guidance.