Dating in 1920s
, I’m always a little shocked to realize that I’m the same age as Carrie and her friends. Now, when I watch it as a single woman in her 30s, it hits a little closer to home.I identify with the characters and their struggles so much more than I did before. Because dating in your 30s is very different than dating in your 20s.If you don’t let anyone in, then you won’t get hurt, right?However, if you don’t let anyone in, you probably won’t end up finding the one.Write down the names of the last few people you dated.
You haven’t met the one, you’re not married, you don’t live in a beautiful house, and you don't have kids.When I was in my mid-20s, I wanted a partner who drove a nice car and could afford to take me to a fancy restaurant.Although I still think these things are great, now that I’m in my 30s, I know that I want more in a partner.But it’s important not to let this negative thinking get the best of you.If you think it’s never going to happen, then it won’t; you have to be positive. You'll never find your soulmate if you're a dating cynic.