Dating a much younger woman
So, tell me Doc, can you successfully lust after young, nubile partners as you age – will it make you happy, and sexually satisfied?
Or should we instead prioritise only valuing the spiritual connection with another person during sex? Benjamin Button Most of the time when someone writes to me with questions about something that’s years – or decades – down the line, the problem is that they’re borrowing unhappiness from the future. You, on the other hand BB, aren’t borrowing trouble so much as just making shit up to get worried about.
Shortly after our breakup tonight, he sent me a Evan, I’m OK with him not wanting to date me.
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This got me thinking – as you age (50 , 60 , 70 ), your lusts for nubile flesh and younger women (or men) must be increasingly harder to fulfill.
Instead, you will need to prioritise experiencing the whole emotional and spiritual connection with another person in its entirety (rather than just wanting them for their hot ass! I am also aware of your other blog post about how society fetishises younger women of a certain demographic, and we are living in an Instagram and porn-addicted world where our standards of sex are enormously warped.
Worrying about whether you’re going to be able to be a dirty old man – or, y’know, the male lead in most Hollywood movies – in 40 years isn’t just missing the point, it’s managing to miss the entire planet the point resided on and sending things out past the Van Allen Belt. First, you’re assuming a whole lot of facts not in evidence – starting with the question of whether you’re even going to be into the same type of women as you get older.
As easy as it is to think that you’re gonna want nothing but jailbait and women in their early 20s, you may find that your tastes have changed drastically as you get older.