Dating a guy from match com
In that case even a teenager-twenty-thirty to forty-fifty something strung out on Meth or another drug of choice is not attractive to anyone.
And they make up those on SA/WYP sites as call girls, escorts or prostitutes wanting a handout for the least amount of work in the worlds oldest profession.
Fischer in her book THE PRINCESS DIARIST stated she wondered often why she had so many male admirers of her in her late teens to twenties when she thought she was the same woman in her 50s to 60s. ” The fact is that Fisher had led such an excessive life (aged prematurely by drugs) and bouts of weight gain/loss/gain that they are not attractive to older, same age or younger men. Who wants to live with such entitlement and excessive demands?
Truth is there are a plethora of men, single men, willing to date men, in normal life, in what used to be the Middle Class of America that are out there and interested in establishing and maintaining a good relationship.
May-December relationships that are not that uncommon if not mainstream. The reverse terminology for older women with younger men. Look at the pitfalls to those like Demi Moore (54) Ashton Kutcher (38) and the pitfalls of the third spouse (the ex) so involved in one’s life (as Bruce Willis (61) that had been the older man to Moore’s second marriage (first to Freddy Moore then 12 years older than Moore). Most of the women I dated in my teens to twenties and thirties were working towards or in careers where they postponed marriage (and having children) in preference to jobs and careers. The few who were not came from bitter divorces (vowing to never marry again).
Is it just sex or is it a deeper programming in our minds and emotions? A very small few wanted to marry (and I should have married one of them).
I have one friend who in his late 40s with a grown daughter (married) was left by his wife two years ago.
She wanted it all and advanced her career (to New York) of which he was willing to relocate with her but she determined He was not someone she wanted with her.
For those with profiles listing their marital status of “its complicated,” it certainly is.Friends, Colleagues, Coworkers, co Church attenders, volunteers, employed professionals (all males) have either gone all out to subscribe to all the personal introduction sites or withdrawn in apathy to state “the best women are married and in good relationships.All that remain are the dysfunctional women who are ‘walking contradictions’ of what they say they want and what they either take on (date bad men) or have checked out of social life in trade for social media.” They conclude “there’s nobody normal out there and the rest are not worth the time to ask out on a date.”Welcome to 2017 in America.Its a very selfish entitlement age that I’m not sure where people survive.The deaths recently of Carrie Fisher and Debbie Reynolds are warning signs what those excessive demands are of women who have it all and yet really have very little.