Book on dating in your 30
Charlotte has become very superficial and everybody is waiting for something better to come along than focusing on what they have in front of them. I think the dating scene is exceptional despite what all my friends would tell you. Bonus: Men are typically not photogenic so you’re usually in for a pleasant surprise when you meet them.
I am just as guilty in this, but it is a product of the environment we are in.” “If I meet one more guy who works in finance and whose primary hobby is drinking I will lose my mind.” “I dated most everyone who had both a face and a job on Tinder. “I’m really not into the bro’d out, preppy, Vineyard Vines type. Give me diversity and some hunka hunka outdoorsy guys.” “For an ex Special Forces guy it’s pretty easy pickins in this city of metrosexual girly men…especially since most of them are candy asses from up north…” “CLT is full of people who are committed to their career first and relationship second.
Finding a person who is willing to devote time to another person is extremely hard to find.” “Same people.
Men are just out to date as many women as possible.
If I’m not going on dates regularly, its by (my) choice.” “I don’t date because that would piss off my wife.” “Guy to girl ratio is much better than in college, where it was 70% girls.” “All the guys are literally cookie cutter: either young, cocky bankers or redneck country boys. Oh…married or gay….that’s right….” Being Jewish, the Jewish dating scene for Males ( I am) is tough, especially looking for a nice Jewish girl (NJG) “Everyone is a transplant so the urge to meet new friends and try new things is there sort of like a college town.
Real World Dating = D .” “Better for men than for women.” “Creativity, guys…not Netflix and chill.” “LAME; as a 31 year old single woman, every man I encounter is living the “cushy single boy lifestyle,” which I have determined is a result of: men being paid way too much in their current jobs, being way too comfortable being single (even though they say “they want a relationship”), and then when said relationship happens realizing it’s cramping their “cushy single boy lifestyle.” Needless to say – so grim on that front.” “Every man seems to be married, and if he isn’t married, he is not looking to date.” “Straight female here – there’s a severe shortage of really interesting, multi-faceted, and insightful men in this town.I’ve never had any issues finding a new partner :)” “Bumble app is the way to go!” “Very few of the men want to ask women out in person.Too many polo shirts.” “I think Charlotte has a lot of opportunities and cool spaces to meet people but it seems like there is a general fear of approaching people.In general, Charlotte, let’s grow some balls.” “Bumble has much more beautiful people than Tinder, FYI.” “This may not be a Charlotte issue, more so, a Southern culture issue but everyone is either in a relationship or looking for one.