Adult videochat analysis 2013
This writer came to the US 26 years ago and writes his thoughts for Thanksgiving.
- - Donna Poisl This week, a local news reporter called me.
The Nurturing Parent naturally talks to the Natural Child and the Controlling Parent to the Adaptive Child.
In fact these parts of our personality are evoked by the opposite.
Here, both are often thinking in the same way and communication is easier.
Problems usually occur in Crossed transactions, where each is talking to a different level.
This country was built by immigrants, it will continue to attract and need immigrants.
They may also have negative intent, using the Child as a whipping-boy or worse.The parent is either nurturing or controlling, and often speaks to the child, who is either adaptive or ‘natural’ in their response.When both people talk as a Parent to the other’s Child, their wires get crossed and conflict results.These are often 'pre-recorded' as scripts we just play out.They give us a sense of control and identity and reassure us that all is still well in the world.